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HELP!!!!!!! ADOPTION??????

michy3 started this conversation

HI,

 

I KNOW THAT THIS IS NOT THE KIND OF HELP PEOPLE USUALLY ASK FOR ON HERE. I WAS TOLD WHEN YOU WANT TO DO A PRIVATE ADOPTION TO NETWORK. MY HUSBAND AND I HAVE BEEN TRYING TO ADOPT FOR OVER A YEAR NOW. I AM 34 AND MY HUSBAND IS 36. WE HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR NINE YEARS. MY HUSBAND HAS HIS MASTERS IN COMPUTER SCIENCE AND I AM A STAY AT HOME MOM. WE HAVE LOTS OF ROOM IN OUR HOME AND IN OUR HEARTS FOR A BABY. I KNOW IN MY HEART WE ARE SUPPOSE TO GIVE A BABY A GOOD AND LOVING HOME. SO IF ANYONE KNOWS OF SOMEONE LOOKING FOR AN ADOPTIVE FAMILY I WOULD LOVE TO GET TO KNOW THEM. WE WOULD MAKE SURE THEIR BABY GETS EVERYTHING THE WORLD HAS TO OFFER AND WE WILL LOVE THE BABY UNCONDITIONALLY. ANYONE WHO HAS TAKEN THE TIME TO READ THIS THANK YOU SO MUCH.

 

MY HUSBAND AND I REALLY WANT ONE MORE BABY.

WE HAVE DECIDED TO ADOPT BECAUSE THERE ARE ALREADY CHILDREN IN THE WORLD THAT NEED TO BE LOVED.

PLEASE HELP US FIND OUR ANGEL.

LOVE,

MICHELLE 

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Schmidty

How would you feel about having an older child, say 58 years old. I have been told many times that I'm just a big kid. You'd be the parents I never had. Seriously, you sound like a great cuople, have you had any luck ? I saw your posting and decided to do a follow up to see how things are. Good Luck and God Bless.

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familyhope
 in response to strawberrylove...   

Thank you... But I found a way to afford the IVF surgery I need.    It works in mysterious ways.  Go figure. 

Good Luck and again thank you. 

 

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michy3

I will be going through an adoption attorney. Also giving a birth mother money and not doing it through the lawyer can be a felony depending one the state you are in. It is a felony in my state.  Thank you for your concern though.

 

Thanks,

Michelle 

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Anonymous

To the families who are looking to adopt or have a surrogate give birth to their child,

PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE consult an attorney or a legal adoption agency PRIOR to committing yourself to ANYONE offering their services as a surrogate or planning on giving up their child for adoption. I can understand you desire for a child, however, how would you feel if you supported "Jane Doe" during her "pregnancy" only to find out she decided not to give up the child, or there was no child to begin with? You would have no legal recourse, and be out thousands of $$$$ and "Jane Doe" would be long gone.

Take the extra time, be extra careful, hire an attorney, do a thorough background check on the woman you choose to work with - prior to any commitment.

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strawberrylove
 in response to familyhope...   

im more than willing to be a surrogate mother.have you ever been pregnant?what are the quality of your eggs?im not too far.im in indianapolis,indiana. email me @ beautifulreign@yahoo.com

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Anonymous
 in response to familyhope...   

I want to just let you know my ideas on you and your family situation, some people are not ment to have children of there own and it's not because they are not fit to have a kid it's just there to perfect as parent !! what I mean is some children are in need of good parents so thanks for looking at adoption as there are kids that really are in need of good parents!!! 

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familyhope

I am currently looking to have a family with my husband. We've been trying for years.   I am wanting to do IVF because that seems like my only hope.  

How would you feel about a surrogate mother?  Maybe you should try that way.  I read & seen articles of women that are willing to do that for couples wanting to have a baby?  It would be cheaper than adoption. 

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